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Ajeeb admi hai

When you start talking to people in Pakistan, almost all the people you hang around eventually hold to more or less the same values. Most of them driven by our Islamic heritage, social class and the general socio political situations around us. Yet, there is conflict. Why, if we all believe in the same things, is there disagreement?

One answer you get around to often is priorities and preferences. We differ because the same superset of values is arranged in a different order in our heads. Since we have limited energy and don’t always get around to what SHOULD be done, we end up looking very different to others.

http://changingminds.org/explanations/preferences/preferences.htm is a very elaborate explanation of the topic:

Next time you see someone and think, “ye kia banda hai yaar” (what kind of a stupid person is this?), try thinking about these.

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